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Playing Victim in Online Forums; When You Cannot Defend Your Position January 2, 2010

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Often in online forums you will watch those who are guilty of misrepresentation, lack of knowledge and poor self-esteem, self-confidence or even low IQ levels; will attempt to shield them selves by playing victim. It is so interesting to watch this, as people who hold them selves out to be experts in disguise will instead play childish games.

Recently in an online writers forum a gentlemen tried this and accused another of attacking him. The other debater when accused of “personal attacks” and the typical mean-spirited comments, whatever that is suppose to mean stated; “Personal attacks? What on Earth are you talking about? I feel that rather than you defending your position you have instead attacked me, but we are not talking about me here. We are talking about you and your marketing of yourself as an expert.”

In observing this dialogue we can see the person playing victim now gets the other party to defend themselves, rather than discuss the original comments. This stuff goes on all the time in Internet Forums and in this case the original comments were forgotten and instead the person playing victim is on the offense, as the original commenter states; “This is not personal and it certainly is far short of any so-called attack. I truly wish you well in all your life’s endeavors, as God is my witness.”

Wow, can you see why cry babies, weak-minded people those with Imposter Phenomena are so good at Internet Forums. They act like children, cannot back up their statements or facts and go crying to the moderator; “He hit me in the sandbox and took the plastic shovel.” Indeed, and the victimhood seeker needs that shovel too, so they can shovel away all the minutia they purvey.

“Lance Winslow” – Online Think Tank forum board. If you have innovative thoughts and unique perspectives, come think with Lance; http://www.WorldThinkTank.net/wttbbs/